Ollie U

Yes, I have—and it’s something that still weighs heavily on me. I had to walk away from work I loved because I simply couldn’t juggle it all without support. Childcare was either too expensive or too inflexible, and as an unpaid carer for my child, there was no room for emergencies or the unpredictable. I didn’t want to leave—I had skills, motivation, and so much to give—but the system didn’t make space for someone like me.

I wish there had been more understanding, flexible hours, affordable childcare, and real recognition of what carers go through. Sometimes it felt like I had to choose between being a present parent and surviving financially—and no one should ever be forced into that corner.