I've been on two work-related train trips in the past week, both of which gave me a much-needed sense of adventure and freedom. I’ve always felt “like a grown up” when I commute by train and treat myself to a takeaway cuppa.

But I’m feeling incredibly fortunate that I don’t have to do this regularly now that I have a part-time job in the town I live.

I went back to work when my son was five months old. His father wasn’t able to work so I was the breadwinner, and worked peripatetically, travelling to schools across a large area and earning a reasonable salary. I loved my job but the travelling was exhausting, as was the increasingly unhealthy relationship and the sense of dread I felt arriving home later than promised due to a missed connection, knowing the silent treatment I’d be met by.

When I separated from my son’s dad we moved back to my hometown where public transport provision is much poorer. During Covid I was able to work remotely until being made redundant, and after that it was incredibly hard to find a job that would accept the restrictions that solo parenting a small human puts on you. I had to leave two jobs because of their refusal to make accommodations around this and the impact on my mental health.

I now work part-time and locally for a much lower wage but I don’t have to send my child to breakfast club and can walk him to school every day.

I’m definitely no longer the young professional grabbing a takeaway coffee en route to an “Away Day” in London. But I’m not sure I miss her all that much.

Its been crazy but all good baby nearly 6 month its flown by got other daughter birthday soon she be 3 time flying by needs slow down x

This week is half term for my oldest. Luckily my twins still see their childminder as their free hours are spreaded.



It is hard to keep them entertained at home and, to be honest, the cost of going anywhere makes it difficult to go out. There are some food places that offer £1 meals for kids which I find brilliant! But unfortunately, going swimming or even at play areas costs too much, and I’m still getting on top of money from Christmas.



It will be much better when the weather is better - we will be able to go parks. But, for this year, I’m trying to stay positive and do the best I can.

The school holidays are upon us here in Scotland and it's been unusually cold with zero sun for 2 weeks now. My normally warm house has been very cold so can't wait to see my next electric bill. It's always more of a struggle trying to entertain kids when off school as day camps etc are very costly - so that's out of the question. We've been getting more creative and my son made his own board game which was fun. We managed to get cheap cinema tickets so that was a treat 👍

Hey there

It's a very cold day 🥶 We were indoors the whole time.

Hey there

It's a very cold day 🥶 We were indoors the whole time.

Hope you are all well. After a rubbish week last week I'm looking forward to some quality time with my babies (they're 15 and 13 but they'll always be my babies).

I've managed to save several vouchers which have helped me fill the fridge and freezer freeing up some cash to pay for the gas and electric. I've saved and saved and saved and ive been able to book to take my older two to the cinema on Saturday. When did things like that become extortionate? Almost £40 for 1 adult and 2 kids is crazy. But we are going and the kids are soooo excited.

Half term doesn't start until Friday, but I've got the older two off sick and eating me out of house and home already. I'm definitely looking forward to the weather warming up and lighter nights though.

I’m happy it’s Friday, and I’m feeling grateful to have a break to spend time with my son without rushing. Sometimes, the responsibilities of being a lone parent - working full-time, juggling childcare, and looking after my son - can feel overwhelming. Since my son’s dad died in 2023, I’ve felt the pressure of being both provider and nurturer. I try not to dwell on this too much and instead focus on appreciating the beauty of life, like a stunning sunrise on my way to work.

Feeling grateful that the weather this past week here in Scotland has been very mild so I haven't needed to put on my heating much saving us some pennies. My son has been off school past few days unwell too so we've managed to stay warm. Looking forward to spring when I don't have to worry about putting heating on.

We had a great day and night visiting family, it was nice to get out the house, even though the streets were like an ice rink. The council really need to get better at gritting local side street roads and pavements.

Happy new year everyone,

It's been a busy start as kids school resumed on the 2nd with some early appointments, but grateful we are in this new year in good health.

It’s nearly the end of 2024.

Looking back I can’t even express my emotions how hard this year has been. I am still reminding myself that we will start the new year with new resolutions, hopes, ambitions and aspirations. I really hope it brings hope, sunshine, warmth, love and peace for everyone. Sending all best wishes and prayers for New year.